How do you let God change you? You give yourself to Him and
you let Him do whatever He needs to. You submit to God’s will and you surrender
your dignity (perhaps) and your comfort and your sinful (including selfish)
desires and you obey everything God tells you to do.
Spend tons of time with Him and read the Bible. Practice
what you learn from those times. This will help renew your mind as you learn to
think like God thinks and see things how He sees things and this will likewise
transform your life.
Why is it so easy to forget that the Christian life is a
relationship with God? It's not a magic formula.
